Post by @fname
If you're considering becoming a parent, please be aware that parenting is exhausting & difficult.
I'm not telling you not to have kids.
It's just that when you make the choice to have a child, you are making the choice to make your life harder. You may find it very fulfilling, & you may love your child very much, but you will have to WORK SO HARD. Just know that going in.
Make an informed choice.
@artemis@dice.camp
100%
Also: if you think that having a kid is going to somehow 'fix' your relationship, it won't.